“Together as One” – Sun, May 4

The annual Chinese Auction of Yeshivat Ohr Haiim, Bnot Yaakov & Yeshivat Kol Yaakov of L.I. will be held on Sunday May 4th, at 7:30 PM, at the Beth Hadassah Synagogue for the Refuah Shelema of Ruchama Sara Miryam bat Tamar Bezalely. This year’s amazing prizes include: Rolex Milgauss, Israel Trip, iMac, Prada Bag, Tiffany, Macbook Air, Louis Vuitton Belts, Hermes Tie, iPads, Lalique, Daum, Cash Prizes, and many more! Admission is $25 which includes $25 coupon. Buffet Dinner & Dessert included. To purchase presale packages call: Daytime: 718-658-7066, Evenings: 516-466-1816, 718-846-7273 Email:ohrhaiim@yahoo.com. Submitted by Mojgan Liviem.

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Seuda Shelishit at Ohr Esther is back!

Come end Shabbat on a high note weekly with Seuda Shelishit at Ohr Esther. Mincha will be at 7:00 PM followed by Seuda Shelishit, amazing speakers and wonderful singing in a warm and fun atmosphere, open to all guys and girls. This weeks featured speakers are none other than our two fantastic Rabbis Adam Sabzevari and Moshe Aziz

Sisterhood’s Mother’s Day

PLANT SALE SISTERHOOD PROUDLY PRESENTS IN CONJUNCTION WITH SHUK SHALOM:Mother’s Day PLANT SALE, Sunday, May 4th at 54 Steamboat Road, 10:00 – 5:00 PM. Annuals, Perennials, Flats, Hanging Baskets, Herbs and Vegetable Starts. Choose from a variety of Begonias, Marigolds, Petunias, etc. PRE-ORDERS AVAILABLE. For any more information, please contact: Rozita Bassaleli (516) 643-2909, Dalia Hakimian (516) 236-7414, Janet Navaei Livian (516) 205-9606, Ester Zar (516) 721-6669.

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Parashat Emor!

Dear Friends;

I hope that you’ll enjoy the following Parsha summary followed by a Dvar Torah;

” Parsha in a Nutshell “

This week’s Parsha begins with the special laws dedicated to the Kohanim, the Kohen Gadol (“High Priest”), and the Temple service. A Kohen may not become ritually impure through contact with a dead body, unless it’s a close relative. A Kohen may not marry a divorcee, nor a harlot; and a Kohen Gadol can only marry a virgin. A Kohen with a physical deformity cannot serve in the Holy Temple, nor can a deformed animal be brought as an offering.

A newborn calf, lamb, or kid must be left with its mother for seven days before being eligible for an offering; one may not slaughter an animal and its offspring on the same day.

The Torah then discusses the festivals throughout the year: (Pesach, Shavuot, Rosh Hashanah, Yom Kippur, Sukkot, and Shemini Atzeret); followed by two constant mitzvot maintained in the Mishkan: the lighting of the menorah every day and the displaying of the “show-bread” every week.

The parsha concludes with the horrible incident of a man who cursed G-d’s name (blasphemy) and was subsequently punished with the death penalty at Hashem’s command.

” Dvar Torah”

Once again a good portion of this week’s Parsha is dedicated to the Kohanim. I always wondered why does the Torah dedicate so much of its “air-time” and scripture to the Kohanim? After all, the Torah isn’t such a long book, and it covers the entire story from the Creation all the way to Jews entering the land of Israel, a timespan of a few thousand years. But nearly half of the Torah is dedicated to the Kohanim and the services they do in the Temple, services that are not even relevant to our lives today. Why? It didn’t take me too long to figure out the answer. Hashem, as well as anyone else, loves to talk and brag about his favorite child who is  the most loyal and obedient out of them all! They are the ones who make him proud and he adores them the most! And anyone who is dear to Hashem, should be dear to us too. That’s why its very important to have respect and admiration for our beloved Kohanim!

But after all the love and the affection that exists between Hashem and the Kohanim, we suddenly come across a very strange commandment given in this week’s Parsha. The Torah says: …..a Kohen, who is blemished, blind, lame, having a nose with no bridge, having one limb longer than the other, with a broken leg or arm, with abnormally long eyebrows, with a blemished eye, a dry skin eruption, moist skin eruption, or crushed testicles, “shall not come near to offer a sacrifice to G-d.” Basically, the Torah is telling us that a Kohen who is disabled or exhibits an array of unpleasing features is disqualified from performing his duties in the Temple!

A very disturbing commandment if you may ask me! We consider ourselves a spiritual people,  a people who are commanded to have compassion towards others, a people who look out for the unfortunate among us, a people who are obliged to judge each other by their character—not by their wealth, intellectual knowledge or their physical appearance! Still, when it comes to the kohen serving in the Temple, the Torah clearly looks down and disqualifies the unfortunate!!

So, here we have G-d Himself telling us that those unfortunate individuals among us, as mentioned above, who have done nothing wrong to cause their abnormalities, are disqualified from serving in the Temple. After learning about this commandment, how does He then expect us to treat the disabled, handicapped or the deformed better than He is willing to? After all, aren’t we suppose to imitate G-d? We believe that no one is more fair and just than the Almighty himself. But we see that the United States of America shows more compassion towards the disabled than the Torah. There are many laws in this country which protect the rights of the disabled and the handicapped. So why does Hashem has to discriminate against the unfortunate? What does He have against the people who unfortunately have disabilities?

Rabbi Berel Wein gives the following interesting explanation: A Kohen working in the Temple is both a representative of people and also an agent of G-d. The Kohanim act as the priests or the “ambassadors” for the Jewish people. The Jewish people are supposed to be inspired and awed by the service in the Temple. It would be distracting and detracting for a physically disabled Kohen to perform the service, as holy as he may be. You see, us human beings expect our representatives and Ambassadors to be in excellent physical form and well dressed, someone who is energetic with magnetic charm and charisma! The average height of the United States male Senator is over six feet tall! All of them are well dressed, well spoken and are among the high class society. Because people are influenced by physical stature of their representatives.

The same logic is used for the disabled Kohen. G-d forbid, Hashem does not discriminate against people with disabilities. A person with a disability is as important and as dear to Hashem as any other person. Hashem does not have a problem with a disabled Kohen, but he thinks that we might have! He’s worried that we won’t be able to take it! The problem is not Hashem! We are the problem!! If we don’t have a Kohen with an excellent physique representing us in the Temple, we might lose interest in coming to the Temple and serving Hashem. The Kohen is suppose to be our connection to G-d, which has to be pleasant, charming and appealing! To us human beings, unfortunately, looks does matter, and Hashem knows that. It’s not Hashem who discriminates the disabled Kohen, but rather, it’s our inability to accept an agent of Hashem to be anything less than perfect!!

Yes my friends, Judaism is against any kind of discrimination against the disabled whatsoever. We are obligated to help and respect the disabled as much as we can! Every jewish soul is holy and accounted for. Every disabled person can do all of the mitzvot in the Torah if he is able to. Every disabled man may be counted for a minyan (10 people), should be Bar-Mitzvad at the age of 13 and can get married, if he is able to. The Chachamim go as far as to say that the neshama (soul) of a disabled person, whether mentally or physically, is more pure and holy than an average person; and getting a beracha from these kind of people can sometimes be more effective than getting a beracha from a “perfect” Kohen!!

So my friends, the next time you see a disabled person, don’t try to distance yourself from him, but on the contrary, try to come close and ask him for a blessing. You’ll never know, you might get a blessing of a lifetime!

Shabbat Shalom & Regards;

Martin

Sunday Morning Parasha Class with Rabbi Adam

R. Adam's Sunday Morning Parasha Class

R. Adam’s Sunday Morning Parasha Class

Our Sunday Morning Parasha Class is on for this week (April 27). We will be studying Parashat Emor!

A special thanks to this week’s sponsor for breakfast, Mr. Joe Loloi, for the refuah shelema of the entire community, for the the safety & well being of Israel, and in honor of Rabbi Mosheh & Rabbi Adam for the great examples they set for the community.

Breakfast will be served at 9:45 am, the class is 10 am – 11 am, at 54 Steamboat Road.

This class is also for the refuah shelema of Miryam bat Dina, Ruchama Sara Miryam bat Tamar, Avraham ben Chava, Mordekhai ben Rivka, Ruth bat Ahuva, Rafael ben Michal, Chana bat Rachel, & Shmuel ben Rachel.

3rd Annual Smile4Flower Family Event

Sunday, April 27th, 2-5pm @130 Steamboat Rd (Cafeteria) Be part of this important cause, which brings smiles to sick children, as well as teaching our children the joy of doing a mitzva. Goody bags (craft, wish well card and goodies) will be delivered to the COHEN’S CHILDREN MEDICAL CENTER.

– Creating wish well cards and packing the goody bags
– Craft and goodies for your kids
– Ice cream fun
– Refreshments sponsored by Everfresh
No money will be collected, only your love.
Event is sponsored and organized by Isaac and Ruth Kashanian, Teva, Eden & Avia

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Humanity, NOT

Shoah, TILL, and Israel Affairs Committee of Temple Israel of Great Neck cordially invite you to attend the introduction of the book Humanity, NOT: Captured Emotions of the Holocaust by Dr. Ari Babaknia. Wednesday April 30, 2014 at 7:45 pm.                                          Click Here to View Flier.

 

SHUK SHALOM – SUN, MAY 4th

Israel & Zionisim Committee in conjuction with Mashadi Sisterhood would like to present SHUK SHALOM: A Fun Family Day with Rides For Children and Food ! Save the Date: Sunday May 4th 2014 at UMJCA 54 Steamboat Road – 11 AM – 6 PM. To Sponsor or Sell any Israeli products at our Shuk please contact: Cathy Banilivi at 516-448-3513, Monica Livian at 917-592-2457, Monica Hakimian at 516- 835-8744, Mahtab Zar mahtabkz@aol.com, Dalia Hakimian (Asher) Mortgage112@aol.com.

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Yom Ha’atzmaut 2014 – Israel Independence Day – Mon, May 5

Join with our Great Neck community at large in celebrating Yom Ha’atzmaut – Israel at 66 – with a special program organized by Israel Bonds. The event will take place at Temple Israel of Great Neck on Monday May 5th, at 7:30pm. Music will be by the Parparim ensemble, and dinner will be served. Couvert is only $40 per person (in advance). For more information please contact: Soheila Kalatizadeh– cell:(516)567-8040, Diana Edalati– Home:(516)498-1816, Soheila Cohanpour – cell:(516)850-8660. Click Here to view the Official Flyer

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Parashat Kedoshim!

Dear friends;
I hope that you’ll enjoy the following Parsha summary, followed by a Dvar Torah;
” Parsha in a Nutshell “
The Parshah of Kedoshim begins with the statement: “You shall be holy, for I, the Lord your G-d, am holy” followed by dozens of commandments through which the Jew sanctifies him or herself and relates to the holiness of G-d. These include: the prohibition against idolatry, the mitzvah of charity, Shabbat, sexual morality, honesty in business, honor and awe of one’s parents, prohibition against taking revenge and holding a grudge against another Jew; and also the ultimate principle of Torah is mentioned, which is:
— Love your fellow as yourself.
” Dvar Torah “
After weeks or maybe months of the Torah dedicating its Parashiot to the building of the Mishkan – Portable sanctuary for G-d, and talking about the duties of the Kohanim in the Temple and the services and the rituals that they performed, finally, in this week’s Parsha, the Torah talks about the laws and commandments concerning every single Jew. Not that we have anything against our beloved Kohanim, but sometimes we want to know what the Torah teaches the rest of us “ordinary” Jews!
Parashat Kedoshim begins with the words: “Hashem spoke to Moshe saying: Speak to the entire assembly of the Children of Israel and say to them: You shall be holy, for I, Hashem your G-d, am holy.” A very powerful and yet a very generalized commandment. What exactly does Hashem mean by being holy? The English dictionary defines holiness as being “a dedication or devotion to serve G-d”! But if we follow the western mentality to find the meaning of holiness, one could perhaps mistakenly come to the conclusion that the only way to achieve this level of sanctity would be to dedicate one’s life completely to spirituality and G-d, and forget about the physical world. One could think that one should ideally have nothing to do with other people; one should not get married and should not get engaged in sexual relationships. So according to western society, to achieve holiness, one should lock himself up on top of a mountain in a monastery and dedicate his life to G-d!
But according to our sages, this is not what the Torah means by being “holy”. There are many different interpretations given to the meaning of “holiness” and even among our early commentators there has been disagreements about the exact meaning of “You shall be holy”. Rashi interprets the mitzvah as one of self-control. He says that you can become holy if you can refrain from engaging in forbidden relationships and from forbidden sins. The word “Kadosh” literally means, “separate”. Thus, the meaning of “You shall be Kedoshim” is “You shall be separated – from forbidden sins.”
Ramban on the other hand, disagrees with Rashi and says that “You shall be holy” has nothing to do with the forbidden relationships. Rather “to be holy” means to have self-control over activities which are permissible to you. For example, we are allowed to eat, but to be holy, we should not be a glutton. We should put a limit on what we can eat and how much we should eat. We are allowed to drink wine, but to be holy, we need to drink to moderation. We are allowed to have sexual relationship with our wives, but we should not do it voraciously. According to Ramban, holiness can be achieved by restraining oneself somewhat from even those physical pleasures that the Torah permits.
What I love the most about our religion is that there are no right or wrong interpretation of Torah. Each commentator gives his opinion and you can relate to the one which touches your heart the most. So after reading a few commentaries, I came across an interpretation given by “Chatam Sofer”, one of the leadingOrthodoxRabbis of EuropeanJewry in the first half of the nineteenth century. He says that the answer to how to be holy is given in the pasuk itself. The Pasuk says: “You shall be holy, because I, Hashem, your G-d, am holy”. He says to reach the ultimate level of holiness, we have to act like G-d. we have to imitate Him so to speak! Well, we don’t know much about G-d’s character, but the main characteristics of Hashem that is mentioned in the Torah are his 13 attributes of mercy which says:”G-d is compassionate and gracious, slow to anger and abundant in kindness and truth…” So in order to reach the highest level of holiness, we have to be compassionate towards our fellow Jew and act kindly towards him, just like Hashem is toward us! That’s why the rest of the Parsha is mainly about how to act compassionately towards your fellow Jew. It talks about how we should care and respect our parents. It talks about not to take advantage of the “blindness,” handicaps and mistakes of others. It talks about our obligation to give to the poor. It talks about not to take revenge and not to hold a grudge. And above all, to love your fellow Jew like yourself.
Yes my friends, according to Chatam Sofer, “holiness” is not measured by the level of your observance, but rather, it’s measured by how much you care for your fellow Jew. That’s why, in order to be holy in our religion, we can not isolate ourselves like the monks and live on top of a mountain. To be holy, G-d wants us to live in the midst of our people in order to show that we do care about them. In order to be holy, one must get married and one must raise children, and one must belong to a community. One must show that he cares about his family, his parents, his community and his fellow Jew. Nobody can reach the ultimate level of holiness all by himself. You can not separate yourself from the rest of your people and think you can become a very holy person. Ultimate holiness is achieved when you can show that you care about others, and you can get along with everyone else. And thats what holiness is all about: “Love, respect and compassion towards your fellow Jew….”
So my friends, make sure that you have respect for everyone you meet, because you’ll never know, the next person you meet might be a very “holy” person!!
Shabbat Shalom & Regards;
Martin

 

SAVE THE NEW DATE:

The North Shore Hebrew Academy Annual Journal Dinner celebrating its 59 year tradition of excellence will take place on Monday evening May 19th at Citi Field honoring Stephanie & Ruvane Vilinsky, Hannah K. Flamenbaum & Charles W. Segal and Sassoun Sassouni. Those wishing to place an ad, make a reservation or serve on the dinner committee, please contact Arnie Flatow at aflatow@nsha.org or call the Business Office at 487-868 ext 2.

“Together as One”

The annual Chinese Auction of Yeshivat Ohr Haiim, Bnot Yaakov & Yeshivat Kol Yaakov of L.I. will be held on Sunday May 4th, at 7:30 PM, at the Beth Hadassah Synagogue for the Refuah Shelema of Ruchama Sara Miryam bat Tamar Bezalely. This year’s amazing prizes include: Rolex Milgauss, Israel Trip, iMac, Prada Bag, Tiffany, Macbook Air, Louis Vuitton Belts, Hermes Tie, iPads, Lalique, Daum, Cash Prizes, and many more! Admission is $25 which includes $25 coupon. Buffet Dinner & Dessert included. To purchase presale packages call: Daytime: 718-658-7066, Evenings: 516-466-1816, 718-846-7273 Email:ohrhaiim@yahoo.com. Submitted by Mojgan Liviem.

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